Pay Attention To Your Office Language.

Everyone will clap their chest and say that they will keep secret for you, but in fact only 1% of them can keep secrets.

Therefore, when your personal crisis occurs in your life, such as lovelorn, marriage and so on, it is best not to talk to anyone in the office, so as to save you from being passed away.

Too much confession and candour are similar to that of less tendons. A mature man is not so straightforward.

Communication with office and colleagues is inseparable from language.

As the saying goes, "one sentence makes people jump, one saying makes people laugh", but the same goal, but the different expressions, the consequences are also very different.

So pay attention to speaking in the office.

1) learn to voice your own voice. Bosses appreciate those who have their own heads and minds.

If you are always used to "parrot", you can easily be ignored in the office, you will not be very high in the office.

You have your own mind. No matter what your position in the company is, you should voice your own voice and be bold enough to express your thoughts.

2, let's talk about it. Don't talk about it as a debate. Be friendly with people in your office. Be polite and have a sense of friendliness. Even if you have a certain level, you can't talk to others in a tone of command.

You can't even use your fingers to the other person. This will make people feel impolite and make people feel insulted.

Although sometimes people's opinions can not be unified, they have reservations, some principles are not very strong, and there is often no need to fight for it.

For example, in the negotiations of some clients, if they argue with each other, they will not only leave their clients behind, but also keep their colleagues away. As time goes by, you will become unwelcome people unconsciously.

3) don't show off your pride in public. If you are the red man in the office, if your boss appreciates you, you should not regard it as a showcase of capital.

In fact, if you have more abilities, you should be cautious. You will be stronger and stronger. If a more competent employee arrives, you will soon become a laughing stock for others.

If you get an extra bonus, you can't even flaunt it in the office. Maybe others are also jealous of you while congratulating you.

4) don't talk about your worries in the office. There are always some people around us. They are very fond of chatting, and are very straight tempered. They like to pour bitter water with others, and regard the office as a place for mutual complaints.

Although such conversation can quickly draw the distance between people, it will soon become friendly and cordial.

In fact, only 1% of people can keep secrets.

So, when your life is personal, it's best not to talk to anyone in the office. When your job is in crisis, for example, your job is not going well, you will have some opinions about your boss and colleagues.

As long as you speak to one or two of them, I believe that a week later, the whole company will know.

This publicity effect is similar to the announcement at the company's plenary meeting.

If you have problems in your life or work, you should avoid talking at work. Try to talk to a few close friends after work.