Five Precious Characters Of Success In Workplace Communication

In the process of on-the-job communication, you must embody your personality charm before you can make more friends.

　　 1, let modesty show your wisdom.

" Modest mind 使人进步,骄傲使人落后”.这是伟大的领袖毛主席给我们留下来的一条至理名言.谦虚是人的思想修养,其核心是善于发现自己的短处和别人的长 处,乐于以彼之长,补己之短.在现实的工作交往中,往往会有一些人,自认为悟性很高,对于他人的意见置若罔闻,总是喜欢高谈阔论,以专家和智者自居. 这种过于自负的人无疑是令人生厌的,也许他们真的很强大,但却很难得到别人的尊敬和赏识,注定会过得很孤独.所以,各位职场白领们,专家建议你们:无 论在任何时候,都不要让自己成为各方面的行家,要让自己永远以一种谦恭和学者的姿态去和别人打交道,即使你的学识胜于对方,也要表现出三分委婉的风度 .这样,不但可以赢取他人的赏识和尊敬,也可以展现自我的才华和智慧.

　　 2, let the refined language show your efficiency.

　　精言,顾名思义,是一种精髓的语言,它会用很简短的语句去表达其深刻的涵义,这不仅是一种言简意赅的体现,更是一种工作效率的体现.与其相反,就 是喋喋不休和滔滔不绝.有这么一些人会让你感觉到很痛苦,往往他们一开口,别人就会失去了说话的权利,他们从来不能简明地表达自己的观点,从来不知道 什么该说什么不该说,总是想到什么就说什么,语无伦次,表意不清,直到你失去耐心,他仍然闭不上自己的嘴巴. 各位白领们,请牢记言多必有失的道理,话 多不如话少,话少不如话好,多言不如多知,即使千言万语,也不及一件事实留下的印象深刻.“多言是虚浮的象征,因为口头慷慨的人,行动一定吝啬.凡有 道德者,不可多言;有信义者,必不多言;有才智者,不必多言.”

　　 3, let tolerance show you. Manner .

　　俗话说:“人无完人”.我们大多数人都会具有武断、固执、嫉妒、猜忌、恐惧和傲慢等缺点,而面对这些缺点,作为处世的一方,如果一味的去进行抱怨 和指责,那么不但不会解决问题的根本,反而会使这些人性的弱点暴露无疑,去促成一种更为可悲的后果.这是由人性的本质所决定的,当我们犯了错误的时候 ,并非意识不到自己的错误,只是因为一种虚荣心和自尊心的遮掩,固执地暂时不肯承认而已.所以,在这个时候,如果你用一种很不妥当的方式去指责他的缺 点和错误,必然会撞击在他那固执的铁墙上,是不会有任何良好结果的;如果在此时,你能够保持一种良好的心态,以理解和宽容去品察对方,并委婉的让对方 意识到自己的错误,这才是一种充满智慧的交际手段.因此,作为职场的白领,与人为善才能与己为善,当你以宽仁之心礼待于人的时候,也必然会得到他人的 理解和尊敬,从而 To promote a more harmonious and friendly workplace communication circle, and to show your charm and elegant demeanor.

　 4, let silence show your connotation.

　　在职场交际中,也许大多数人都会认为语言是其主要的交流方式,但我却认为,除了语言以外,沉默更是一种行之有效的交流手段.因为,沉默和语言相比 ,更富有理性,更富有智慧,也更富有内涵.比如,当你遭受到别人的无端指责和恶意诋毁的时候,而你又无法以坦言去澄清你的真源,在此时,你不妨保持一 下沉默,因为,沉默是金,沉默更是一种力量.当你保持沉默时,对方往往由于不知道你的底牌而感到无穷的压力,这时,他的意志也将会受到动摇甚至不战自 溃;如果此时你进行了反抗和争辩,那么,你的愚昧行径必将给对方以可乘之机,这样一来,不但不会得到任何友善的结局,反而会使自己进一步陷入被动和尴 尬的窘境,同时也会大大的诋损了自己的完美形象.如果说,还有一种比语言更伟大的真理,那就是沉默.一切的含义都将潜藏在一个眼神、一个笑容、甚至一 个木然的表情之中,这恰 It is precisely the expression of our truest intentions. Therefore, wise men often understand their value of silence deeply, so as to show their deepest connotation in the best way.

　 5, let humor show you. charm .

Like a pale piece of paper, a lack of vitality can make people feel an endless depression. If appropriate, a little humour is added, and some bright colors will be embellished on this pale paper. It will make people feel a sense of visual beauty and ease of mind. Moderate humor is also a very important auxiliary means in modern communication mode. It will not only affect the progress of the work, but it can also play the effect and function that some "harsh words" can not achieve. As a white-collar in the workplace, we should skillfully use our humor and let laughter add harmonious colors to our contacts, so that laughter can add weight to our work. Some people think that humor is "finding pleasure" and "making jokes". It is hard for them to make a good job. For this reason, the experts of recruitment website have different opinions. They think that the work is intense and busy.

In interpersonal relationships, it is inevitable that people will feel a depression if they speak in a serious way. Even if you only say three minutes, you will feel that you have spoken for an hour. If you can come up with a little humor and make people laugh, even if you speak for an hour, you will make others feel as short as three minutes, which is the charm of humor.