Do You Really Know Your Child? Answer These 9 Questions First.

Every parent thinks he is very

The child's every move is under his control. If a parent does not know his child, I am afraid his parents will not admit it.

However, in real life, it is the parents' opinionated belief that understanding children and understanding their children has led to many parent-child conflicts, so that the relationship between parents and children is tense.

If parents can see their actions, know their intentions, understand their intentions and understand their hearts, they will not only stay on the surface but understand their inner needs, which will help children's growth and play a positive role in parent-child relationship.

If you know your child, test yourself first. Ask the following 9 questions, can you answer it?

1, do your children have friends?

Many parents do not know whether their children have friends or do not know the names of their children's friends, so don't tell them what their parents are doing.

Understanding children's friends and parents will help you understand your children.

2, what habits do your children have?

Speaking of children's habits, there may be many parents who complain that my child is not.

Only bad habits.

Do not eat well, do not pay attention to lectures in class, do not speak health, drag things and so on.

So, what are the good habits of children? Parents not only understand, but also make good use of their good habits to enhance their self-confidence.

3, what do your children like to eat?

Children like to eat meat and seldom eat green vegetables, which is a common disease of many children.

Children's eating habits depend largely on their parents, so they must adjust their eating habits for their children, and don't evaluate which is tasty in front of their children.

4, is your child quiet or active?

Being quiet and active is something in the character of a child. Some children are naturally active, some children are quiet, no matter what kind of parents, parents should accept children rather than complain.

There is good between the movement and the movement. The outgoing children are more active than quiet, and the introverted children are quiet and quiet.

5, is your child timid or brave?

Young children are usually very timid. It is not realistic to expect a child to be brave.

Cowardice and bravery are two different things. Don't mention the same thing. Cowardice is not necessarily a bad thing. It can keep children away from danger and bravery sometimes brings unnecessary trouble to their children.

6, what kind of TV programs do your children like?

Many parents will say, "animated cartoon", yes, I still remember the animated films I saw when I was young.

Because the child's heart is full of curiosity and fantasy, they find their own role from the cartoon.

Parents can guide their children to see some from their children's interests.

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7, what hobbies and interests do your children have?

Today's children have no time to develop their hobbies and interests so that they can learn and get good grades for their children.

Parents do not allow their children to spend their time on hobbies and interests. Some parents even don't even know what children really like and what they are interested in.

8. What kind of books do your children like to read?

Letting children read more will help children's growth.

Some parents will say that children simply do not have time to read books. They simply do not like to read books, and play games online on a little time.

This is because there is no book in the family environment, no reading environment, parents themselves do not like reading.

9, how tall is your child and how heavy is your weight?

This question seems too simple, but there are parents who really don't know the height and weight of their children.

If parents are not concerned about the changes in their children's growth, it is not clear, let alone the understanding of psychological changes.

The nine little question seems simple. But how many parents can really do it? If you can't do it, how can you say that you have a special understanding of children? How can you play a guiding role when you don't know your children? How can you help children when they encounter problems?

Love children, we must understand the children with heart. If we want to know our children, we need to do our parents' efforts to take care of their children.