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Topic: Communication Profession Twist Spouse Mentality

2010/11/9 11:39:00 38

At the age of single

White-collar workers

There are always some public relations managers, receptionist, media reporters and other communicative professions. Because of their wide social contacts and more opportunities to communicate with successful people, the result is that they have a bad attitude towards spouse choosing and spouse choosing, so as to raise the threshold of love, and it is difficult to lock in specific mental images.

So, the people around them advised them not to look too high, but also to see the flowers in their eyes.

Miss Fang, 28 years old, is a manager of Public Relations Department of a company in Wuhan.

She has been more successful in her work for several years, but she has not found her sweetheart yet.

After introduction, she met with a dozen men, but she could not find her heartbeat.

Later, she carefully analyzed the reasons.

"Because of my working reasons, I have met many successful people, especially some of the elegant men, which I admire very much.

I have more contact with them. I often think that when I look for a partner, I will look for them according to their standards.

So, in fact, my spouse's eyes are getting higher and higher, and even some picky ones seem unrealistic.

In the face of many peers, Miss Fang thinks they are not successful enough.

Cause

Many married men are married.

Although she entered her old age, she was not willing to be low.

Zhang, a 33 year old journalist from a financial magazine in Wuhan, is still single.

According to their own conditions, in the eyes of outsiders, finding an excellent girl should be very easy.

But he was very confused about his personal feelings.

"At work, I have a wide range of social contacts, and there are many opportunities to recognize excellent girls.

But it is because the choice is too wide that many girls are found to be excellent and have unique charm and personality.

So sometimes it's hard to decide which girl is suitable for herself.

Mr. Zhang's friends around him laughed at his "flower heart", but he was really distressed. Indeed, some of them were looking at flowers. His view of mate selection has also become erratic.

As a result, he has not locked his sweetheart.

In view of the above phenomenon, Luo Ping, director of the women's research center of Wuhan University and professor of sociology, believe that

Career reasons

It has been a good thing to expand the opportunity to choose a spouse, but if it is not up to the actual standard of spouse selection, it will be a deviation in mentality.

A distorted mentality is bound to find the right person.

Especially women, once they enter the ranks of older singles, their original advantages will also weaken.

And when the concept of mate selection is not stable enough, the criteria of spouse selection should be further refined and diversified, and eventually find the right person for each other.

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